My wife caught me cheating...she is threatening to take my kids. Can she?
This is a common threat. Do not panic and do not fall for it. First, most married individuals do not commence extra-marital relationships "cheating" when marriages are healthy. I.e., there was likely a mutual destruction of the relationship long before either party strays. It's unfortunate but it happens. If you feel you can save your marriage with counseling (that is, if you feel you and your spouse can move past your indiscretion without it being used as a weapon in th